A Better Person

You know, sometimes its just a situation where we don't know what happened, don't understand something etc.
Lets say a friend of yours didn't friend you. For no reason. And it's like all of a sudden.
So you don't know why, don't understand, and really wanna know why.
But sometimes, it's good if you understand the situation yourself.
This is how I describe it =P
I will understand that there is something to understand.
Although I may not know what is it, I will understand it in it's simplest way, which is to understand that it is something to understand but I just don't know what is it.
But whatever it is, I will understand that what I don't understand are reasons, and they may be unexplainable, inunderstandable, or maybe just reasons that has reasons why it can't be told.
Without knowing the reason, I will understand that there is something behind, and from there, I shall understand the whole thing that I don't understand, and make that not the matter.
Do you understand my explanation? ><
This is what understanding before an explanation means to me.
As I said in one of the previous post, which is to understand before any explanation.
Most people just need that.
But there are so many people who just didn't think of it, or maybe have no time to think about it, and go straight to a fight or whatsoever.
Maybe I'm the free one, a very free one that can think of this. Haha.
Well, maybe this needs some trust too.
Trust in the person and understand before an explanation, then give a smile, like this! :)
Really, if only everyone can understand that explanation I made, and maybe make it not so complicated, and somehow let the world read it, then maybe well maybe.. Maybe we can be a better person =)

And you know, maybe on your big day, your birthday maybe, you get presents right.
So lets say one of it looks really precious, grand, expansive etc, maybe an example.. Erm... Handphone!
And another present just looks like some kinda junk.
So cheap, so worthless, so... yea. Another example... er.... Okay. A handmade cloth pencil case. Maybe with a doggie on it. Haha.
So what can you compare? A good great nice one and a lousy cheapskate one.
But that is by the look. Have you see what's inside it? I mean, really deep inside till you can't see it with your plain eyes. But only your heart can.
If you try, maybe you can see that the lousy cheap looking present worths more than anything in the world, even gold.
And what can you find in the great cool expansive handphone?
Nothing, just money. Many times, people will do it this way. Money will do, money is everything.
It's just like happiness or pride.
If you choose to tell everything, you get happiness. But if you keep it all inside for pride, you don't get happiness at all, you just suffer inside to look good outside.
To me, it's not the money that matters, but the effort, the heart.
It's not the present that matters, but what the present contains.
The handphone can be found anywhere, just spend some money, go to a shop nearby, and poof.
But the pencil case.. Its only one in the whole world. It is made with full attention, effort, time, patience, love, and most of all, heart.
Does the handphone contain these? I'm afraid not.
The person who gave the pencil box also sewed a cute doggie as the keychain. Cute dangling legs, whatever you can imagine =) She/he knows you like doggies, and recently you wanted to get a new pencil case because your's were worn out. So that thoughtful person made this all just for you, with full attention.
Yup. Like awwwwee hahaha =P
Never judge one by it's outside. :)

*Lavender: Yes's =)
*Light red: No's =(

Haha. =P
Hope we all will be a better person.
Thanks loads for reading ;)

© Jesslyn Lai

2 September 2008